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Jan 21, 2019

How do you deal with your kids when they are showing defiant behavior?  Yell, punish, banish them from everything they love for weeks on end. Behaviour Therapist Amelia Bowler shows us how to get on the same page and live a happy life even when our kids test every last bit of our patience. Whether your kids are in the blue, yellow or red zone depends on how much they can learn about how to navigate feelings and come out even better on the other end.

About Amelia Bowler:

Amelia Bowler is a behaviour therapist, and helps people by listening to their goals and needs, then using behaviour science to help them choose the actions that get them closer to goals.

Her priority is to help families, especially those with challenging behaviour problems including ADHD, Autism, and other brain differences. Challenging behaviour is stressful for everyone in the family, so it’s a team effort to overcome it. She’s always excited to help families build a life that works for each of them.

You can find Amelia at her website, on Facebook, and Instagram.

Show Highlights:

  • Why punishment doesn’t work
  • How kids learn to punish their parents
  • Don’t engage in the battle
  • Parenting is about getting on the same team
  • Avoid the combative stance
  • Why kids become defiant
  • The strength of empathy
  • What to do when you’re both off the rails
  • Tune into your own needs, as a parent
  • Know when to ask for help

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Resources:

Check out Amelia's FREE resource: 5 Hidden Reasons for Challenging Behaviour

Talk About It:

Each week we challenge you to set a time with your spouse to have a conversation that matters. Here’s your conversation starter: What self care do you need to commit to, in order to give your best to your family?